In Appreciation

Part of my daily meditation practice includes taking a pause from all that can distract in the course of a day, an hour, or even minutes; and within that pause, taking a few deep soothing breaths, allow myself to reconnect and focus on those many things for which I have a great sense of appreciation, thankfulness and am grateful. I call it my Gratitude Meditation.

I have been and continue to be, so fortunate and blessed to have had many wonderful influences in my life, both personal and professional. The impact this authentic and caring connection, characterized by a sense of empathy, relational curiosity and mutuality have truly been transformative in my own my life. This in fact is a central tenet of Relational-Cultural Theory (RCT) that it is through relationship that we grow, transform, learn and deepen a sense awareness of who we are, as men and women, in this world.

It is with deep appreciation, honor and joy that I acknowledge those who have contributed so significantly to my learning.  While it would be impossible to name each and every individual who has been a part of my path, please know that though your name is not noted here, the essence and appreciation of my connection with you is very much alive in my heart.

To my mother and grandmother who taught me by example that sharing and giving unselfishly and without condition, are deeply gratifying ways of expressing love, caring and honoring connection.

To my many professors, supervisors, educators, professional colleagues and friends; all exceptional human beings in addition to being such skillful and talented professionals, who showed me by example, that ‘showing up’ and being fully present and authentically human is the greatest gift in the healing arts. While the names are many, I personally acknowledge, Margaret Manzella MSW, ACSW, Tom Hammond MSW, ACSW, Barbara Wolfrum MSW, ACSW, Bill Kelly MSW, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, Lee Faver PhD, Bonnie Collins EdM, LCSW-R, Stephen Gillian PhD, Greg Salgueiro, MS, RD, LDN, Alan Roach PhD and all the founding scholars of the Jean Baker Miller Training Institute (including but certainly not limited to Jean Baker Miller MD, Judith Jordan PhD, Irene Stiver PhD, Janet Surrey PhD, Linda Hartling PhD, Amy Banks MD, Maureen Walker PhD and Natalie Eldridge PhD). You have all been deeply instrumental in my learning and professional development.

To Dennis Kiley - There is no greater proof of Sacred Contracts than the connection we have formed. Your friendship continues to be a cornerstone of joy and learning in my life. A significant part of my growth in both yoga (philosophy and practice) as well as mindfulness meditation I attribute directly to you. Prior to us meeting I had no formal meditation practice. Today my practice of mindfulness has literally transformed my life. I am deeply and forever grateful. Through your authentic, generous and compassionate presence, you are a true leader and healer making a difference in the lives of others. Who better than you to help others in Discovering The Way. With many thanks, huge appreciation and deep care. Thank you!

To Seane Corn - My admiration and respect as you know goes back many years. From my first connection with you, I knew you were a woman with a huge spirit and tremendous purpose. You walk your talk and give of yourself unselfishly and with such open heart. Your spiritual advocacy, relational awareness and ability to connect mutually and with great empathy are a tribute to you as a compassionate human being as well as a reflection of your mission and passion.  How we live our life *is* after all, our message. You have shown me a way, through your living example of integrating Self, Spirit, and all that is Divine into a life practice that I integrate into my own life both personally and professionally, on and off the mat. With caring and compassionate heart, I honor and thank you for your friendship and influence!  Off The Mat, Into The World.

To Matt Fontaine - Teachers come into our lives in a variety ways. Your extraordinary ability to connect with others and remind them of their personal strenth, value and potential contributes to your success as a certified personal trainer. But so much more than that, it speaks volumes of your personal character and success as a man, husband and soon-to-be father. Thank you for being my teacher. Thank you for being my friend. You make a difference!

To my colleagues and friends at Wayland Wellness Associates (Henry Przybylowicz LMT, Marie Sauro PhD, Cecilia Dietzler LICSW and Mitch Dondey PhD). Thank you for your confidence, support and friendship both personal and professional. I have learned much from each of you! With great respect, it is a joy working with you on a daily basis.

To Maryellen Butke LICSW, PhD, Carol Adams LICSW, Eileen Hayes LICSW and Cindy Doyle MA: Many thanks for believing in and welcoming me into the Angell Street Wellness Collaborative, an extraordinary group of independent practitioners while together, on the East Side.  When I moved to Providence , it was from within this supportive community I was able to grow, develop and launch my psychotherapy practice here in Rhode Island .

To David Jacques, an incredibly talented graphic and web designer, for this newly updated website I am so very proud to have co-created with you in a very collaborative manner.  You are a huge spirit with tremendous talent. Many thanks for your teaching and education along the way.

And last but certainly not least, to my clients over the past 22 years who have been among my greatest teachers about life, determination and courage. You remind me on a daily basis of the strength of the human spirit. I am honored by your confidence and trust in me, the work I do and the spiritual and healing connection we have created. I acknowledge you humbly and with great appreciation.

Namaste,